Yup, D is getting over her acutely heart broken stage at Michael's arrival, and if I am honest, so am I. Never of case of loving one or the other, or doubting my capacity to love both, more about how to fit it all in. Somehow we are fitting enough in, prob not as much as before (sneaky suspicion this may be better), but enough. We are healing together which is as it should be. Meanwhile Michael is doing just fine thank you very much - not knowing anything different and being a very small baby, copious amounts of boob, sleep, cuddles and interesting big sister to watch suit him well indeed.